Red flags for dating a man
Have you talked to them about it and they’ve done nothing to rectify the matter? You may not be the only secret boyfriend/girlfriend. Do you feel alone in your relationship, as if you’re in a relationship with yourself?If you feel sad when you think about the relationship or are wondering why it’s not going the way you would like, then that’s a sign that it’s time to move on.
While most people would tell you to run to a guy with these qualities, I’m going to play Devil’s Advocate and explain why you This seems great, but the fact is that a lot of guys I dated wanted to lock me down just so I could “be their property.” What entailed with guys like this often included abuse, stalking, and more. But, 99.999 percent of the time, it’s a warning sign.Everyone dating should protect their hearts and minds from those looking to abuse them. Do they complain about the way you do your hair, what clothes you wear, and try to watch your every move?Do they laugh at your dreams and goals telling you that they are stupid or that you should focus on something else?Of course, people always asked me if I didn’t notice warning signs when we first started to date.
And, in truth, in some of the cases that I experienced, certain qualities about a guy seemed off.
I have been in many terrible relationships that sounded so promising when we first began to date, and it’s partly why I gave up on ever dating again.