Dating the wrong person
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do Dating is, in some ways, a metaphor for Halloween.
('Tis the season, go with me here.) Trick-or-treaters go from house to house, tasting all different types of "candy" (aka men or women) until they're completely exhausted. In a 2012 study, researchers identified seven types of breakup strategies.
(The Discovery Channel has yet to confirm the anecdote, but current 20-somethings speculate as much.) But in an era of Tinder, OKCupid, JSwipe and Hinge, matchmaking often happens by swiping right and left, making potential daters literally disposable.
The ease of app and online dating has allowed ghosting to take new form.
But while most don't condone ghosting, that doesn't seem to influence whether they'll do it to someone else.If someone doesn’t call you after a couple days, that should be enough to say, he's just not that...oh God, I don’t want to quote myself," he said (quoting himself anyway).The likelihood is that you're not going to feel great if a relationship ends, be it one minute or a year.
So a statement like that might hurt feelings, "but it means they respect you if they care enough to be upfront with what's going on," she said.
"When you disappear into the ether without any indication why, all I can do is come up with a million and a half reasons why you’re not into me," she wrote.